When I have time, I reconnoiter new safe places for our sggurls so that they can meet in a safe comforable place, feel welcome and at the same time support lgbt businesses.
As Covid curbs lift, bars that were once friendly to trans are no longer so. Friendlier to $$$ are they focussing on selling whisky bottles, segregrating the VIPs from the rest of us. Illuzion is definitely not friendly on the purse and I defnitely didn’t feel welcome. The greeting I got when I walked in was, “you can sit outside.” That’s fine, I’ll sit way way outside of their bar about 1km away. As we walked by other bars, the doors that were once open, were shut. They want the big spenders and not a few gurls that just want to hang out and get 1-2 drinks. Our paltry $ no longer satiate their revenue.
SGGURLS an umbrella group that encompasses the spectrum of trangendrism in Singapore spanned 15 years to become the oldest surviving transgender group in Singapore.
The SGGURLs flag was designed by several very talented individuals who would have been stars in the graphic design world if they were not in our little marginalized world. The first design was done by Trish Leong on 2007. Her signature still emblazons the SGGURLS logo..
The design was modifed by Kayla when she was taking design classes.
10 years later, the design was improved by Carmen Victoria Love.
SGGURLS is 15 years old. It’s a testament to the principle that transgender is a spectrum and each individual chooses which part of the spectrum they are comfortable in. Why is SGGURLS different than past transgender group? There’s no leader in the group, only volunteers, organizers and clusters of friends. Secondly, SGGURLS does not point any of its participants to a particular destination such as full transitioning. SGGURLS members are very diverse. Each has very complex situation that the deal with. We don’t advise or prescribe. Each person is the captain of their lives. When we meet we talk about many things and share some of the trans hacks.
Yesterday was a very special day. An afternoon visit from a dear friend who founded SGGURLS with me. At night, a quiet celebration in a non-descript lesbian bar in Singapore’s lgbt belt with some friends. 95 clubstreet was one of our earliest favorite meeting point.
I was there but you were not. So that’s a zero for your candidacy. You did well up to this point.
Don’t just stare and expect me to come to you. I come to the bar often and see familiar faces. You stand out so I already can guess. Don’t message me when I am already in the premise. If you find me so intimidating to even walk up and say hi, I wait a couple of minutes and leave. For this night, of course, I got picked up.
New MRT station
Some tips for interviewees: show up early, don’t be shy, introduce yourself.
Affidavits of tough life chime daily in COVID times. The Rat bowed out, the water Buffallo returned to the padi fields. 2022, the Tiger unsealed from the Zodiac wheel. Einstien relativity exist in captivity. Time contraction is inversely proprotionate to hardship.
Alpha Beta Delta Episilon Omnicron can be a lineup from Hasbro’s Decepticons.
I learned a new term, CMI (cannot make it) from someone who said many people CMI. So here I am on a couch in a land of CMI. HMU (hit me up) on kik address nicolesingslave.
There’s something about men on big bikes. They’re like cops, great siren and when you need them most they’re not there. I’ve been on dates with Chinese Captain America, Ang Mo Wolverine, Ang Mo Mad Max and lastly the Local Ghostrider (LG) a day ago.here’s something about men on big bikes. I’ve been on dates with Chinese Captain America, Ang Mo Wolverine, Ang Mo Mad Max and lastly the Local Ghostrider (LG). LG texted 8:45 I’ll be there and I arrived at 8:45. Waited 5 min.
9:46 LG messaged me, “hey I don’t see you.” LG, you’re late bitch! Your ass just got ghosted by the real Ghostrider. Sayonara LG HA HA ha ha ha…